I know you say that you're not either a Dem or a Rep...but somehow, your words speak loudly contrary to that. I've read much of what you've typed over the years and I'd say you lean more than you think.
As for me? The answer is simple I choose what I see to be the lesser of two evils. I look at the overall picture and think to myself "what things will these people pass that really will effect me?" Does that make me a selfish prick? Maybe...then again, I don't care and I'm not afraid to admit it. I'm no humanitarian, and I'll openly admit to it.
I look at what these parties claim they want to ban/regulate, then I look at what they historically ban/regulate. I look at where they want power to go, how they give out funds, why they help, and who they ignore. I try to see what side will do best by me, not by you, or my neighbor, or someone else I've ever met. Everything I do on a daily basis is in the realm of how it will effect myself and my family. Nothing more, nothing less.
I'll say that there is a large amount of ground both the L and the R share...far larger than most admit.
In the end, I often vote Republican...not always, but often. I'll never say that I agree with anyone 100%...as a matter of fact, I've long said I really do not care for anyone in national politics (or state politics for that matter). the problem is, I only get to choose one or the othe
Lastly...the transgender issue. I'm a coward, I won't deny it. I do not have the courage to "come out" to a vast majority of people in my life. Truth be told, I regret bringing it up here. This place, at times, skims too closely to my "real" life and in many ways, that truth would ruin me...possibly even my career. Bringing it up here was a huge mistake. I had a few good discussions but for the most part, it's been thrown in my face like some sort of weapon (not saying you did that, because you didn't).
I'm not so foolish to think that Trump, or Clinton, or Obama, or Bush, or whomever is in the White House is going to effect the reality of trans people. That kind of change takes social conditioning, not laws.
Was that really necessary?
Bravo for an honest answer.
I'm still going to disagree with you on things surrounding this for no reason other than I don't like people acting for purely selfish ends, whether they are aware of it or not (the only difference being people who aren't self aware are even more frustrating to talk to).
What your attitude represents is a race to the bottom, in my opinion. None of the things you complain about so vocally here will ever get better if people make a conscious decision to only look out for themselves. Anything that does improve will be in spite of you.