the 'I can't stand my girlfriend's family' thread

[DevilRedeemed]

I've had it. fuck it. my girlfriend's mother not only grinds on my nerves in general but she also purposefully pisses me off and sais things which are blatantly out of line - but 'jokingly', all the motherfucking time. I've had to live with these people for the past 4 months whilst my home got renovated (never again - you have no idea). yesterday was the last straw. I just blew up grabbed my shit and left.

and I'm not sure I an hang with the way my girlfriend (partner) never tells her mother to quit - but when I say something she's like 'stop it' with this look in her I like 'time to take your medicine'. now I may not be the easiest person to get along with but I've tried so hard to fit in in this dysfuncional household, and all I get is shit. not only can't I have my family to myself, but my in laws have to be in every single miniscule corner of my business, telling me what's right what's wrong about how we bring up our children. worse still my 'mother in law' is a doctor - but I can see how her bipolar munchaussen syndrome suffering mother passed on her 'teachings'. add to that generous helpings of egomania on behalf of all and voila - a feast fit for a suicidee (hey I'm not serious about suicide - lol. this is just general bullshit and this thread is about that - don't want to see type posts in reply to mine please. just venting).
fuck..

 

[HellioN]

If it makes you feel better I hate my wifes family as well.

 

[yashiroTCM]

They say: Marry a girl = Marry her family aswell...

 

[Mushiki]

and I'm not sure I an hang with the way my girlfriend (partner) never tells her mother to quit - but when I say something she's like 'stop it'

This is actually the worst part, when your girl does nothing to at least try to fix the situation.

I had this kind of issue with my ex, but with slight differences -- they would act all nice and friendly with me but torment my girlfriend with stuff like... not allowing us to sleep together and more and more conservative stuff like that (very old parents)

So I would just ask my girl for something and she would say "no, my parents don't allow me to"... -- and at that time, she was 21 years old. Obviously, her parents brought her up letting her know that sex is evil, and that they would never allow us to be in a situation that might derivate into sex. And as expected, she would do nothing to at least try and change the situation.

This has nothing to do with religion, since they are not religious at any level.

Once though, I did something that made me feel so good... it was my little revenge -- it was a kind of family meeting of hers and I was invited. At a certain moment my girl says "Dan is a metrosexual"... and her parents say "a what?", and I kidly replied "a metrosexual, you know, METRO (meter) - SEXUAL", extending my arms as if I were Christ the Redeemer.

Hahaha, you cannot imagine the look in their faces, and the silence that came after that.

 

[melchia]

This has nothing to do with religion, since they are not religious at any level.

Haha! I love how you put this disclaimer in there.

 

[DevilRedeemed]

This is actually the worst part, when your girl does nothing to at least try to fix the situation.

I had this kind of issue with my ex, but with slight differences -- they would act all nice and friendly with me but torment my girlfriend with stuff like... not allowing us to sleep together and more and more conservative stuff like that (very old parents)

So I would just ask my girl for something and she would say "no, my parents don't allow me to"... -- and at that time, she was 21 years old. Obviously, her parents brought her up letting her know that sex is evil, and that they would never allow us to be in a situation that might derivate into sex. And as expected, she would do nothing to at least try and change the situation.

This has nothing to do with religion, since they are not religious at any level.

Once though, I did something that made me feel so good... it was my little revenge -- it was a kind of family meeting of hers and I was invited. At a certain moment my girl says "Dan is a metrosexual"... and her parents say "a what?", and I kidly replied "a metrosexual, you know, METRO (meter) - SEXUAL", extending my arms as if I were Christ the Redeemer.

Hahaha, you cannot imagine the look in their faces, and the silence that came after that.

here is what I read:
I'm a sex addict and this chick I was seeing wouldn't let me bang her because she was scared I would love her and leave her, whilst her parents dissaproved since they didn't want their little baby to run the risk of getting pregnant so early on - they waited until they where in there mid 40's to loose their virginity why shouldn't she also?


sex is evil btw. that's why it feels so good.

 

[OrochiEddie]

my ex gf had the most horrible family. I had been to family get togethers and o man i have never seen so many overwieght or retarded people in my life! That and her mom was a psycho bitch. Controlling bizatch to the extreme luckily I dumped her in december like last weeks tacos

 

[soulthug]

I can stand them. Nice people.

PS:

post the whole pic mushiki you big argentine tease

 

[GregN]

Unless they're related to you by blood, the relationship means nothing.

Husbands and wives can get divorced and separated with a piece of paper.
Mothers, Fathers, sons, cousins, uncles, grandparents, brothers, sisters, are there for the long haul, whether you like it or not.

 

[OrochiEddie]

Unless they're related to you by blood, the relationship means nothing.

Husbands and wives can get divorced and separated with a piece of paper.
Mothers, Fathers, sons, cousins, uncles, grandparents, brothers, sisters, are there for the long haul, whether you like it or not.

not if mister blasty has anything to say about it...

 

[aria]

Luckily, I've never had a problem. Some were uninteresting, others were nice. Currently I like'em a lot.

 

[Lovecraft0110]

I've had it. fuck it. my girlfriend's mother not only grinds on my nerves in general but she also purposefully pisses me off and sais things which are blatantly out of line - but 'jokingly', all the motherfucking time. I've had to live with these people for the past 4 months whilst my home got renovated (never again - you have no idea). yesterday was the last straw. I just blew up grabbed my shit and left.

and I'm not sure I an hang with the way my girlfriend (partner) never tells her mother to quit - but when I say something she's like 'stop it' with this look in her I like 'time to take your medicine'. now I may not be the easiest person to get along with but I've tried so hard to fit in in this dysfuncional household, and all I get is shit. not only can't I have my family to myself, but my in laws have to be in every single miniscule corner of my business, telling me what's right what's wrong about how we bring up our children. worse still my 'mother in law' is a doctor - but I can see how her bipolar munchaussen syndrome suffering mother passed on her 'teachings'. add to that generous helpings of egomania on behalf of all and voila - a feast fit for a suicidee (hey I'm not serious about suicide - lol. this is just general bullshit and this thread is about that - don't want to see type posts in reply to mine please. just venting).
fuck..

Hey man, you just need to vent in real life. You remind me of myself: the angrier someone makes me the quieter I become, till I explode...venting is better sometimes, and healthier.

 

[Brubaker]

After reading this thread I guess I should consider it lucky that my current girlfriend has a strained relationship with her parents and hasn't talked to them in over a year. I have no desire to meet them and she has even less of a desire to speak to them. She 's an artistic person and decided to pursue a career in sculpture over the objections of her parents. I find it incredibly small-minded that something like that would cause such a huge split to develop in a family, but according to her they're both extremely "driven" professionals and had similar expectations for her. We've also only been together for a couple of months so I suppose there are far more important issues to focus on in our relationship.

 

[hermegildo]

My ex-gf's parents hated my guts.

She used to sneak out of the house in the middle of the night to do the nasty with me.

 

[Mushiki]

here is what I read:
I'm a sex addict and this chick I was seeing wouldn't let me bang her because she was scared I would love her and leave her, whilst her parents dissaproved since they didn't want their little baby to run the risk of getting pregnant so early on - they waited until they where in there mid 40's to loose their virginity why shouldn't she also?


sex is evil btw. that's why it feels so good.

Hahaha, you can see right through me

It was a fun relationship, and I still take her out about once a week... she's complicated when it comes to sex though -- haha

post the whole pic mushiki you big argentine tease

you know you love me

 

[neo1087]

I love my girlfriends parents, they are kind hearted, like here take this, take that, do this if you want. But the only thing that irks me is the comments that her dad says. I havenlt had the best driving record...so he insists on calling me "crash" and asking how my car is..eaven though he knows damn well that's it's still broken. It just pisses me off to the point where I want to say something, but just cant. My girlfriend eaven makes comments, like.,.If I say something about her driving, she always comes back with "atleast I have a car" or :you should be talking about driving". I don't know, it's just really annoying.

 

[Argentina94]

My inlaws love me and I've never had a GF who had a family that irked me.

My parents, though, are another matter and can be quite unbearable and insensitive to daughter-in-laws.

 

[chris1]

Luckily, I've never had a problem. Some were uninteresting, others were nice. Currently I like'em a lot.

Luckily, I've never had a problem.Well,then there was the time I had to use a Baseball Bat but.. .... Some were uninteresting,Yes Ditto...... others were nice,Yes.... Currently I like'em a lot. yep,.....and they like me too..

 

[Shawn Carr2o]

My ex-gf's parents hated my guts.

She used to sneak out of the house in the middle of the night to do the nasty with me.

Hahahahahahahaha! sneaking out in the middle of the night to do the nasty.

 

[sQuareh4t3r]

I can stand them. Nice people.

PS:

post the whole pic mushiki you big argentine tease

I didn't bother reading the thread, but I agree with with the wee 'un.

Stop being faggots and live like men, you fucking foops.

 

[abasuto]

Luckily, I've never had a problem. Some were uninteresting, others were nice..

Same here.

I dated one girl for a couple of months who's mother was weird as hell. She was one of those people you can't really describe how they're weird. She was still cool though and we got along fine, just seemed to be missing a few screws upstairs.

 

[jro]

When I was 22 I had a gf who was 18.

I quite honestly had dreams about killing her parents with a sniper rifle (who loves ya' Shagohod?)

GF was black. Never knew her father, birth mother was a crack whore (quite literally, I got to hear stories about how mom would go in the back bedroom and earn money), so gf was put up for adoption at about 3 or 4. She's adopted by two BORN-AGAIN CHRISTIANS (white). They were the whole 9, I mean religious private school, promise ring to God... all that shit.

Never had a serious boyfriend before me. So she learned to kiss and do all sorts of other stuff with me (regardless of note above)...

But what they really hated was that she started to think for herself by being so close to me. She had major problems with anger (got into physical altercations with her adoptive father on more than one occasion. I asked her what was wrong one afternoon, and the answer was "my dad was telling me how worthless I was, so I told him fuck you and then I kicked him), and talking about that made her change. She also came to realize that physical closeness wasn't the evil thing her parents made it out to be. And that there were other worldviews than just that of ultra right-wing Christians.

So after 6 months or so, her parents decide we can't be left by ourselves together Then pretty soon after that, her adoptive mom calls me (what the fuck!?) and tells me that this girl is breaking up w/me. Um, okay, never had mom dump me before. A couple days later mom calls me back and screams at me over the fact that now-ex gf was late getting back to work from her lunch since she was talking to me about the whole thing.

I wanted to fucking kill those two self-righteous fucks. I stayed working at the same place for another 18 months or so, so I saw mom every now and then, and she always tried to talk to me, like we were cool or something. Every single time I just turned my back to her, rather than fly off the handle and get my ass fired.

Interesting enough, ex-gf moved out of the house a few months later, met a Sprite delivery guy, and started fucking him on a nightly basis. Lo, the fruits of sheltering a child.

Pregnant now, not married... Couldn't happen to nicer folks.

And there was another gf whose adoptive father (pattern emerges? hmm) was depressed, suicidal, and possible suffering from terminal cancer. She never told me (I found out later), which made things a little weird.

 

[DevilRedeemed]

jro. damn.

 

[Argentina94]

jro. damn.

Seconded.

 

[Fighter123]

Seconded.

Third.