How do I get girls to like me?

[melchia]

WTF you assholes? *SOMEBODY* give him some encouragement and advice. Don't you want him to keep posting? I don't have any advice for him at the moment seeing as I have already given him so much, but surely someone else has something to contribute.

Okay, I'll bite:

Mak,

It's probably been said before, but you're analyzing women entirely too much. If you want to call some chick because you think she may have called you first, then do so and don't even worry about why she thinks you're calling. Even if you ask if she called the other day, she has no way of knowing that she is one of the only two girls that has your phone number. You're getting way too caught up in analyzing the insignificant details to enjoy the big picture (your life). Try to relax and don't make emotional investments in people who don't act like they give a damn about you. In other words, if someone takes an interest in the things you are doing or thinking, then respond in kind (do not put up a facade). But if they don't act interested, focus on something else. Do things that you enjoy (and aren't illegal) and don't put ANY stock into what people say about you.

 

[abasuto]

WTF you assholes? *SOMEBODY* give him some encouragement and advice.

OK,

You obsess over stupid shit because your life is simple. All you do is mouch off your parents. If you think getting laid and upping your max bench are major goals to overcome in life, you've got a rough ride ahead of you. Get a job. Get your own place. The responsibilities of taking care of yourself will help you put things in perspective as well as making you a better person. When I think of you Mak, I think boy, not man.

This post wasn't meant to be insultive, just to the point. Mak's parents have pampered him for too long, he needs tough love now.

 

[Turrican_Man]

Thanks guys. What do you think about what they said Mak?

 

[Makismo]

Thanks guys. What do you think about what they said Mak?

Fine and dandy I guess. However, I lost the fucking girl's phone number! I looked everywhere for it and I can't find it to call her. The girl who called last night never called back either. I am pretty sure that was a one shot deal too. I bet (whoever she was) she will never call back. I could be wrong but why would a girl call me? Hmmm, I guess I will have to find someone else. My anger level is rising too. I am starting to get pissed off! I am tired of being the beer bitch to those jokers. They haven't even paid me three times in a row! I think they are using me. Hell, I know they are using me. They don't even want me to come with them to their parties. Fuck them, I don't need them anymore anyway. They are a waste of space. I know they don't like me anyway....fuck them...

 

[abasuto]

I am tired of being the beer bitch to those jokers.

Don't let anyone use you so you can feel accepted. Fuck'em is right.

If you were cool and being yourself while talking to that girl, that's all that matters. If she doesn't call you back, it wasn't meant to be. Don't beat yourself up over it.

See how positive I am right now ? It's because I'm half drunk. Drunk and happy.

 

[WGolly]

yeah, sounds like youre getting it. Dont worry about what other people say, just do what makes you happy.... you'll find youre true happiness eventually....

 

[WGolly]

OK,

You obsess over stupid shit because your life is simple. All you do is mouch off your parents. If you think getting laid and upping your max bench are major goals to overcome in life, you've got a rough ride ahead of you. Get a job. Get your own place. The responsibilities of taking care of yourself will help you put things in perspective as well as making you a better person. When I think of you Mak, I think boy, not man.

This post wasn't meant to be insultive, just to the point. Mak's parents have pampered him for too long, he needs tough love now.

quoted because its true....too too true ....

 

[abasuto]

On the drive into work today I heard Green Day's When I Come Around on the radio. For some odd reason I thought of Mak.

 

[WGolly]

Mak reminds me of this guy I worked with over the summer that always called me JOE

 

[Magnaflux]

OK,

You obsess over stupid shit because your life is simple. All you do is mouch off your parents. If you think getting laid and upping your max bench are major goals to overcome in life, you've got a rough ride ahead of you. Get a job. Get your own place. The responsibilities of taking care of yourself will help you put things in perspective as well as making you a better person. When I think of you Mak, I think boy, not man.

This post wasn't meant to be insultive, just to the point. Mak's parents have pampered him for too long, he needs tough love now.

I think I typed the same message around page #127.

 

[Benzo187]

This is a very intresting topic with lots of unique responses I would like to add. Everyone has pretty much said everything that I could think of.

 

[soulthug]

 

[Makismo]

I have no idea who the girl was who called me but I guess it doesn't matter. I ran into my old clay partner and she wants to have coffee with me. She is a pretty good looking girl too. I want to give her a big hug and a kiss...yummy yummy yum yum yum.

Anyway, I will be sure to be as positive as possible. I won't talk about how crappy my life is. I am going to be upbeat and positive. Damn, I have the serious hots for this chick...I am telling you. Anyway, wish me luck.

On another note, I went on a beer run with two lesbian chicks from Starbucks. They really enjoyed touching and feeling each other if you know what I mean. I could tell which one was the "boy" in the relationship. I would really like to see them in action - with their clothes off. It might be kind of hot...hmmmmm

 

[abasuto]

Anyway, I will be sure to be as positive as possible. I won't talk about how crappy my life is. I am going to be upbeat and positive.

Smart move. No woman wants a guy who whines.

Damn, I have the serious hots for this chick...I am telling you. Anyway, wish me luck.

May the force be with you.

 

[RAINBOW PONY]

Smart move. No woman wants a guy who whines.



May the force be with you.

would you ever jack off a man?

 

[Makismo]

Coffee date confirmed...

Coffee date with the hot girl is confirmed for Friday at 8:15. I will be as positive as possible. Perhaps I should give her something that I made in pottery class last semester. I wonder if that would be overkill...hmmmm. I really want to give her my emerald bowl - which is rather large. I bet she would like it. She told me last semester that she really liked it but the fiery red and blue one was her favorite. However, I gave that one to one of my teachers a while ago. I hope the emerald one will do. We will see what happens.

 

[pixeljunkie]

Coffee date with the hot girl is confirmed for Friday at 8:15. I will be as positive as possible. Perhaps I should give her something that I made in pottery class last semester. I wonder if that would be overkill...hmmmm. I really want to give her my emerald bowl - which is rather large. I bet she would like it. She told me last semester that she really liked it but the fiery red and blue one was her favorite. However, I gave that one to one of my teachers a while ago. I hope the emerald one will do. We will see what happens.

dude, don't give her anything seriously. Feel it out first. If its just a friendly "catch-up" and have coffee thing....you're gonna' freak her out. Seriously.

Just go, be mindful of what you say [in terms of staying positive and confident in the conversation] and if you guys go out for "coffee", 2 or 3 times...then ask her on a REAL DATE. Then, after you do THAT. Then you can try giving her shit.

 

[Stinky-Dinkins]

Hahahahaha.

Yeah Makismo, give her that giant homemade pot.

 

[pixeljunkie]

Hahahahaha.

Yeah Makismo, give her that giant homemade pot.

But paint "Mak + Pretty girl 4-ever" on it before you do. And say you wanted to make something pretty from her skin later...then look around the room nervously and immediately start talking about porn.

 

[Makismo]

dude, don't give her anything seriously. Feel it out first. If its just a friendly "catch-up" and have coffee thing....you're gonna' freak her out. Seriously.

Just go, be mindful of what you say [in terms of staying positive and confident in the conversation] and if you guys go out for "coffee", 2 or 3 times...then ask her on a REAL DATE. Then, after you do THAT. Then you can try giving her shit.

I think you are 100% right. I won't give her anything right now. I bet that would freak her out. I think that is a little over the top. If I happen to get to know her better, then I can give her something but not right now. I will test the waters first before I do anything like that. Thanks for the advice.

 

[pixeljunkie]

I think you are 100% right. I won't give her anything right now. I bet that would freak her out. I think that is a little over the top. If I happen to get to know her better, then I can give her something but not right now. I will test the waters first before I do anything like that. Thanks for the advice.

good, just quit "trying" and things will happen....eventually.....hopefully.....maybe

 

[spur1977]

Dude, The starbucks over in Inwood Village is really nice and it's in a trendy part of town! Or take her to the one in Northpark mall, have a quick cup, then go walk around a bit and see what she is into.

 

[Makismo]

The coffee date went well today. I was so worried that I would over sleep and miss the date, I hardly slept a wink. I am tired as hell right now. I am glad to report that this time the girl didn't bring her sister along for the coffee date. We talked for about 30 minutes and then she had to be off for her class. We talked about a lot of interesting things. I asked her if she would like to have coffee again sometime and she said that she would like that. After the next coffee date (if it happens), I will be sure to ask her to something more formal. I am still not 100% sure that she is into me or not. She did show up on time which is a plus and she smiled at me as well. I hope that things work out between us.

 

[iamyagami22]

The coffee date went well today. I was so worried that I would over sleep and miss the date, I hardly slept a wink. I am tired as hell right now. I am glad to report that this time the girl didn't bring her sister along for the coffee date. We talked for about 30 minutes and then she had to be off for her class. We talked about a lot of interesting things. I asked her if she would like to have coffee again sometime and she said that she would like that. After the next coffee date (if it happens), I will be sure to ask her to something more formal. I am still not 100% sure that she is into me or not. She did show up on time which is a plus and she smiled at me as well. I hope that things work out between us.

Good you're getting somewhere, don't blow it. And by that I mean don't get too invested in the relationship, just take it slow.

 

[melchia]

Dude, The starbucks over in Inwood Village is really nice and it's in a trendy part of town! Or take her to the one in Northpark mall, have a quick cup, then go walk around a bit and see what she is into.

the one in northpark is kinda cramped imo...but there are some awesome bars not too far from there (little further south on 75). Cuba Libre has a very nice one, on the floor above its restaurant...would make a nice second date