I was trying to teach a buddy of mine starting with the basics using a malfunctioning board as a example but he JUST kept telling me to jump to the end before I explained the fundamentals making it impossible for me to teach and him to learn because he had no patience. Basically he wanted to learn the whole science in a hour.
So basically what I am telling you is you must have patience and be ready to fail before you succeed and most of all you must be genuine in your desire to learn, the hobby is really rewarding.
How to learn. First and foremost you must understand how a circuit works. It's not enough to just follow directions to assemble a circuit. You must actually READ engineering books to understand basic principles and math behind how a transistor works for example. Ohms law learn it and all its inverse formulas. Learn DC first before you move on to AC because AC will kick your ass if you don't get a grasp on DC first. Digital is a must learn at all cost. If your not willing to pursue a formal education in electronics don't even bother trying to learn RF because it is on a whole other level. I would advise you to learn from college text books as they provide FAR superior explanations with mathematical examples, I still have and reference my college text books when I need to be refreshed.
Hang out on tech site such as EEVBLOG which is a major hub for technology nuts.
When your ready to get your hands dirty you must have basic components and equipment to experiment with because what good is book knowledge if you can't apply it. I am not going to talk about advance test equipment, with that in mind the most essential piece of test equipment you must own is a multimeter and I mean a good one as it WILL be used so frequently the price of a fluke meter is justified along with the fact that a fluke will last you for a decade and exceed your requirements to perform all basic measurement. Make sure you get a meter which will meet your needs such as do you need to be able to measure frequency, temperature, etc. Buy a temp controlled Weller station, no cheap radio shack crap. You will have to buy a inventory of basic components to experiment, resistors, capacitors, transistors, omp amps, etc. Start with a project book to get a ideal before you try to do your own thing.