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Originally posted by David Duchovny:
I've been drinking a little bit again but what I'm about to say Makismo I think you should take to heart.
Don't let any of this **** get to you. We all have our trouble with women. I think I've had more trouble in my life (especially my mind) from having been involved with women than you have not having been involved with them at all. That's the way life is. Consider your ignorance of the female to be your saving grace, because I can tell you, the ideal relationship you're looking for will come back to bite you in the ass in the end. You think it’s all an “up” when it comes to women? You’re looking for the “up” without the “down” and trust me that’s not the way it works. It never has, it never will.
Listen man - don't be a prisoner of your own mind. Don't give in to BS cultural influences that say you have to do this or you have to do that... One day you will find a girl who is very much like yourself, and you'll look back on your current problems with a grin. She will fall into your hands... but in the meantime don’t go grasping for something that isn’t there. Don't push it James, and don't let people on the internet (of all things) get you down. I **** around on the internet all the time as you probably have noticed, but I think you're serious so I'm being serious right now- don't let it get you down. Do what makes you happy (as long as it doesn't prevent others from being happy) and **** everyone who pressures you to "do this or that." You're not normal... guess what? I'm not normal. You haven't been with women, I have (and in many cases I'm worse from it.) What the **** does that matter man? You're letting it eat away at your mind and your soul, you need to let it die, just let it die. Let things unravel as they may, enjoy your life as it unfolds, don't let influences around you get you down.
Do not worry about it. Don't get so worked up about things (especially something as trivial as *****), and more than anything - if you're taking steroids (legal or illegal) stop right now. I've never taken steroids but I have been hopelessly addicted and down and out from other "substances." It’s not something that any man should have to experience. **** them, do what makes you happy, ignore what doesn't. It is as simple as that man.
These are the words of a drunken Irishman, but you know I speak the truth. Don’t let it get under your skin, don’t do anything too drastic, and enjoy life for what it is.
-Dinkins
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I have learned that women do not make me happy at all. In fact, they do exactly the opposite. They make me feel bad about myself because no matter what I do, they just aren't interested. I am just going to have to stop trying. It just makes me feel bad when I get rejected time and time again. I think that it is pointless really. The problem is, I don't have a social life and I can't get one either because no one wants to talk to me. Being nice never got me anywhere. I guess I will just say whatever I want without regards to anyone's feelings because in the end, they wouldn't be nice to me anyway so it doesn't really matter. Nothing makes me happy at this point. I am stick between a rock and a hard place. I guess that is the end of my sad tale.