FF XI was my first MMO.
Played like an insane madman for 5 and a half years.
A lot of shit went to the wayside because of it.
My wife played with me, and we had a great static made up of all local friends. It really worked well.
Met a lot of great people in the online community as well.
Very hard game that required a lot of hours and dedication if you wanted to be the cock of the walk.
Some of my fondest memories in gaming, bar none. Too bad S-E forced us all to quit with their draconian customer service policies. They probably could have taken a page from Blizzard's book for that.
Tried WoW. It sucked. I quit.
Tried XIV. It sucked. I quit. Admittedly, they were a lot nicer on the customer service side the second go around. Maybe they DID learn.
Refuse to play TOR because, you know, fuck George Lucas.
I am going to see what S-E does with XIV. I am excited by everything they're announcing, but I will not install that abomination on my PC again until I hear the buzz to determine if it's worth my time. In it's current state, nobody in their right mind should be paying to play it.