I just read your old PM..Sorry man,I'm not around here that much to have offered help.
I did see the thread but my answers would have been the same as other members posted above.
I see no updates to the situation..
So,..
First thing..
Open up the carts and clean the connectors with very fine sand paper..
Do this under a light.
You'll see yellowing on the connectors..Clean off each prong with the sand paper until you see a significant difference in the color..
You'll notice it'll turn a Shiny Golden color now while looking under the light..
Just don't go crazy on the connectors..do one at a time and your wrist will hurt..
Then use Contact Cleaner to get off all the residue/dirt that is left on the connectors after doing this cleaning...(wife off any excess with a rag)
(Contact Cleaner will not get off that Yellowing.)
((I usually use DRY green Scotch Brite but sometimes it's just not good enough))
Do this cleaning to the Edge Connector too..
With the mother board I take it out of the cab..
I use a Cardboard Nail File..the finer side.
I take it and rub every connector prong in the motherboard..rubbing- pressing on them and watching them push back to center.
Doing this I'm also feeling the resistance they give...Then I blow out all excess dirt and use contact cleaner to do as above.
Make sure to ..let it dry a bit....though the Contact Cleaner I use is Fast Drying.
I did this cleaning yesterday to the Cart & Motherboard in my Mini Bam cab..
I will admit it's timely and work...But it's the only was I can see to get a real good solid/clean connection between the Motherboards prongs and carts.....It always worked/works for me.
Second..
I think you may be having a Power Supply Issue..
Do you have a Digi/Volt meter to Take a Voltage Reading..?....(5+
Your Power Supply may be two low in Voltage..Failing or just not right..
Does it look like the Below Power Supplies..?
http://www.happcontrols.com/powersupplies/power_supplies_amusement.htm
This is what you need provided you have a Dedicated Neo Geo Arcade machine.
]http://www.happcontrols.com/powersupplies/80007200.htm
Ultimate 150 Watt Power
Supply with External On/Off
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This one can be use but it doesn't have the External On/Off wiring.
Ultimate Power
Supply with On/Off
Switch - 150 Watt
http://www.happcontrols.com/powersupplies/80001500.htm