hi again ,
so the problem is solved , my bank blocked the paymet ......... there are some possibility , maybe just some problem on my bank side or that -> it is possible because a few days ago i bougt someting on itunes payment goes outside the country , than i bought a few other think also payment went outside the country but not the same , i gues it was 3 different places ......... and so my bank blocked the payment to the shop , the problem is i got no messages from my bank if i had not called them i wouldnt know
so for others if you dont get instant a repley from the shop call yout bank , not just if you located within the us the same can happen here in europe too