I thought it was the wife with all the money...maybe he's talented...???
On topic, I'm gonna tell you what my mom always told me, be yourself, if the girl doesn't like it then she's not worth it.
Within 5 seconds a woman knows if she will sleep with you or not, it's an instinct, don't waste your time if the attraction isn't there 'cause the sex will suck and believe it or not sex is the most important thing in any relationship, those who deny it are usually not great lovers and it's not necessarily 'cause they're bad in the sack or whatever but it's simply 'cause they haven't found that person that clicks with them.
People spend lifetimes with one another, some find that one, others settle, don't settle, be patient, in the mean time don't be afraid to test the waters...oh wait, we are talking about sex right? I mean fuck why else would you want to talk to a girl, am I right? At less you're one of them douches that pretends to be friends with a girl 'cause she gets you and you're not attracted...lies! All men are dogs, every single one of them, as we should, it's only natural to want every thing that we fancy.
Money? It helps, specially if you want to level up, but let's be honest, you don't have to be wealthy to carry yourself with confidence. The less nervous and precautious you behave the more chances you'll have to be a hit with women.
I am the best lover there is, at least that the same response I get from every woman I have been with but it's simply 'cause I adore women, I don't just want to do the thing and fall asleep, I devour them in every sense of the way, even after we part my presence lingers as they drift into their lives...bwa ha ha ha!