Fathers day weekend is off to a shit start

topher

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Yeah, see the title. Cops, headwounds, handcuffs, 4g in stolen jewelry recovered, cops, a psych ward, intake, 4 hr drive...yeah there's a story there...I'll share more when I calm down...

Tonk, guess I'm one of those shitty neighbor familys.

Happy fucking fathers day to me.

I'm going to drink some whiskey and start getting drunk. I need it now.
 

topher

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Oh yeah, forgot about the knife getting pulled on me...

I Merced out on him and filled assault charges on him as well...

Guess he forgot I routinely kill shit bigger then him and drag it all around the woods for fun.
 

aria

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Yikes... feel free to vent at us as you need.

At least you had a pretty decent promotion interview though, right?
 

terry.330

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Damn man, is this about your kid being out of control? You've mentioned that several times lately.
 

topher

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Damn man, is this about your kid being out of control? You've mentioned that several times lately.

Yep. Oldest son has lost his mind.

@ Spike...thanks for the input without having any real knowledge of the situation. Please don't be a dick, that's not what I need right now brother.
Maybe it didn't come across right, but that was my way of saying I'm ending a fucked up night.

Didn't get drunk or have a drink...hadn't even eaten in 24 hours because of this.

I can't keep beer/liquor in the house currently, nor can I keep any perscription pills unlocked. Had to put keyed locks on the bedroom doors, etc, etc...

I need to look into juv boot camps and find out if they can be court ordered.
 

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i really wanna know what went on now. my girlfriend has a cousin who is a diagnosed schizo and when he has his "moments" where he flips his lid you don't want to be around, its quite scary, wont be volunteering to go to one of her family get togethers again. he freaked out the last time, wound up cutting his face all up and running off into the night, cops had to round him up and he was sectioned again. guys got issues, and if you have a son that's suffering with something like schizophrenia or manic depression: my hats off to you bro. that's got to be one hell of a weight to carry.
 

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Someone at my old work had to leave the company suddenly and move back to Texas because his son was apparently having major psychological/behavior issues (not sure which one, it was obviously confidential). He had lived in MN for a few years but was waiting to move his family until after his son finished HS.

On the plus side, at least you're in the same town. I assume you've tried counseling. Hope you find the right solution for him. I admit I'm also curious to hear more of the story, but I understand if you'd rather not share details.
 

topher

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No, I don't mind sharing...nothing I'm ashamed of on my end, just an unfortunate run of bad choices on my sons part.

It's gonna take a full keyboard and not tapatalk to get the whole story down. I'm out and about at the moment, so it will be a bit.
 

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Damn man, that's rough. All I had happen for Father's Day is my mom file for a divorce on him the week before. Happy Father's Day indeed. Going to be leaving to go see him now, I'm sure he's a wreck, even though he'd never admit it.
 

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Holy crap dude. I hope everything is better now or at least a little better. I'll read the story when it's posted.
 

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That sucks, man. Sorry to hear. Would probably be expensive, but there's always sending him off to a private military academy There's a few in VA. Hargrave and Randolph Macon come to mind.
 

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Sounds more like a drugs problem.

Yes, jewelry and valuables that aren't always accounted for
are typically the first things to go.
Expect elaborate excuses (lies) about it when confronted.
If it is perscription drugs that are synthetic opiates
then I would regard it every bit as serious as heroin addiction.
Hope it isn't the situation I'm describing.
But if you need an ear about it,
then you have one here.
 

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I (think) know what troubles are, and am glad my life is pretty boring so far.

When I hear people whining about things that just do not matter, I usually just nod and walk on.

Health problems (including mental health/addition issues) are horrible.

I wish your family the best in a shitty situation.
 

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Damn man, that's rough. All I had happen for Father's Day is my mom file for a divorce on him the week before. Happy Father's Day indeed. Going to be leaving to go see him now, I'm sure he's a wreck, even though he'd never admit it.

Wow, that's rough --how expected was it?
 

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Yeah, see the title. Cops, headwounds, handcuffs, 4g in stolen jewelry recovered, cops, a psych ward, intake, 4 hr drive...yeah there's a story there...I'll share more when I calm down...

Tonk, guess I'm one of those shitty neighbor familys.

Happy fucking fathers day to me.

I'm going to drink some whiskey and start getting drunk. I need it now.

Oh a shitty father's day for you too? Count me in. I didn't make a thread about it yet because i was asleep because of a long and tiresome day. But anyway me and 2 other guys got demolished by 12-14 dudes at a club inside the Hard Rock Casino. 6-7 of those guys took out me and the guy next to me. I have punch, kick and stomp wounds all over my body. Happy Father's day indeed. I wish I could have a drink with ya.
 

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Oh a shitty father's day for you too? Count me in. I didn't make a thread about it yet because i was asleep because of a long and tiresome day. But anyway me and 2 other guys got demolished by 12-14 dudes at a club inside the Hard Rock Casino. 6-7 of those guys took out me and the guy next to me. I have punch, kick and stomp wounds all over my body. Happy Father's day indeed. I wish I could have a drink with ya.

That probably would be pretty fucking epic, get the security tape! (PS looking forward to a thread, this sounds like a good story)
 

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Spin might have tried to steal the thunder from this thread (kidding), but I still want to know the story. :)
 

topher

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Wow Spin, that is a he'll of a story.

My wife told me to go out spearfishing with my buddies and she would deal with the drama that we knew was coming so I could have somewhat of a good weekend. God bless her.

I did and she felt with shit like a trooper. Made for a late night last night.

The boy got a concealed weapons charge thrown on him last night on top of everything else.

Was filling out paperwork till midnight or so at the group home.

Work day started at 6:30 so running on 4 hrs sleep.

I'll post a full story when I'm not mobile.

Tonk, I'll hit you up later.
 
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aria

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Wow Spin, that is a he'll of a story.

My wife told me to go out spearfishing with my buddies and she would deal with the drama that we knew was coming so I could have somewhat of a good weekend. God bless her.

I did and she felt with shit like a trooper. Made for a late night last night.

The boy got a concealed weapons charge thrown on him last night on top of everything else.

Was filling out paperwork till midnight or so at the group home.

Work day started at 6:30 so running on 4 hrs sleep.

I'll post a full story when I'm not mobile.

Tonk, I'll hit you up later.

With each reveal, this story gets more and more messed up :(

You sound like a good dad, though!
 

SPINMASTER X

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Spin might have tried to steal the thunder from this thread (kidding), but I still want to know the story. :)

LOL i was just adding to the shittiness. My story couldn't steal the thunder from this one. LOL mine was just a huge fight. Topher's sounds like a movie.
 

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Spearfishing spot from Sunday.
 
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