370 ueser here - hey all..
i had one of the old-school SD adaptors - a 'kingdata' - that was easy to mod in one piece, and several of the newer sandisk ones, with datecodes on the back ranging from 2009 to 2011. The sandisk's had 2 designs, both similar to the breakdown pictures in this thread - quite messy to do 'in one' so i just made pairs, popped one open and ran 30awg wire from the micro pins out to the tabs on another, crossing over as pointed out - MUCH easier, and fine if You don't want to use the device as a handheld, which i don't.
If you want a nice neat all-in one, then you really need to find the crappiest oldest adaptor You can, then be ready for some micro-surgery and precise crazy-glue and araldite action!
As far as converting files for proper use is concerned - i can see where the confusion might arise - which bios zip to use, what needs renaming inside it, the directory structure when using fbacache (or the convertxrom tool - WARNING: needs .NET framework >=4) and so on - but let me assure anyone feeling frustrated, it does all work, you CAN run Your choice of stuff on your own micro SD if you make an adaptor and do Your homework, and you can do this leaving your neogeoX unmolested, just keep at it, don't give up, and don;t loose it and crumple up the SD card adaptor, then put it in your mouth, chew it into a ball and gob it in an ashtray before dousing it in isopropal and setting it aloight in frustration - this will only delay you and make a bad smell.