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subcons said:What the hell can I do? I can't blatantly ask him all these questions. I'm trying to get more solid info on this. If I know for a fact that he's involved, I would ask him. But as of now I've got nothing concrete.
Suggestions? And seriously.
Blatantly ask him. Pay attention to how he reacts when confronted.
-Less finger pointing,
-Lip licking,
-Lip puckering/tightening of lips,
-Increased drinking and swallowing,
-Fewer hand gestures,
-Hand-to-face grooming,
-Sighs/deep breaths,
-Hand and shoulder shrugs,
-Handling objects,
-Looking away to the side or down,
-Touching nose,
-Crossing arms,
-Closing hands into fists.
Basicly, most people when lying and being confronted get nervous to some degree. Might wanna "watch" him before you ask him for a little while to weed out some of the things on that list he does just out of habit.
An additional way to possibly tell that someone is lying is to watch
their eyes. Most ( est. 78% from a medical report I read once ) people will look in one direction when
reconstructing a memory (remembering) and another when creating a
memory (lying).
PS- Sorry to hear about that, really sucks.
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