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No offense taken...and I figured it would come up.
I've had nearly 4 years to digest things and seek council since "coming out". I clearly have gender dysphoria, I consider it to be psychological issue, something that doesn't bring me peace of mind. Because of this, I'd never ask someone to buy into my mental issue and address me as something I'm not. Putting on a dress, changing my demeanor, even having SRS...none of these things would make me a woman.
Nah I will apologize because it was a snide remark.
Embrace it, there's no point in carrying this around like a ten ton weight on your shoulder. It's not like you asked for any of it. Try and make the best of it and fuck it.
Wear a dress and/or do what the fuck you want. Let your mind wander as long as you're not hurting anyone in the process, relax.
If a qualified mental health professional came onto this site he/she would have a field day. Dysphoria would be the mildest assessment made. But we are all people just being people trying to make it to the finish line as placidly as possible.