Sorry to hear about your dad Tak, i couldn't imagine going through something like that.
Tak that is an interesting perspective, I'm sorry about your dad but thanks for sharing. War is hell no doubt about it.
The older my sister and I got, the more dad told us what he did and saw in World War II, on the Eastern Front, in the P.O.W. camp and during his long trip back to blighty. First-hand experience like that beats any history book and made us see the reality beyond propaganda and big brass heads who moved their troops like chess pieces and never really had to endure the brutality, blood, dirt, starvation and bitter cold that was the Eastern Front, Western Front,
any front for that matter. These people went through a giant bone grinder and never were the same when they returned home, no matter which side they fought on.
Before that, my grandfather (mother's side) went through the bone grinder of World War I, other members of the family got killed during bombing raids, one of them starved to death in the hunger winter of '45, etc.
So... we all paid our price, eh.