What really cracks me up, is this logic that since I know the seller, it's somehow now my financial responsibilty to finish the transaction. And somehow, I'm the asshole because I didn't spend my time and money to ship out a harness. Besides EG, I don't see any of you cracking open your checkbooks. And what difference does it make, if you were at his house or not? If you're willing to spend the cash, I don't see the distinction.
Besides spout shit from your watchtower in ohio, what exactly have you done to resolve this situation?
I'll give you the money to ship it.