GregN. said:
- Go to those dating sites (only pay ones tho; free ones don't cut it) like Match.com
- Go outside. Seriously. Don't keep yourself on house arrest too long; the chics aren't going to come and hunt for you.
~ On the other hand, don't turn into a manwhore whos cellphone is constantly ringing, who spends no time @ home. Chill out, take some quiet me time, soak it all in, and give yourself some introspective space. Get to know yourself better this way.
- Stop giving a shit. Weird as it is, finding a job and a g/f seems to happen to people who aren't really looking . It finds them by accident. It seems to happen out of the blue, when you're distracted by something else.
<Yea, don't wear clothes with stains and holes, but judging someone by what they wear is pretty shallow if you ask me. Some of the coolest and classiest people I've met in my life wear shoddy clothes, and some real assholes dress like the pretty boys you describe. The reverse is true too. Why not talk to the person first before you make shallow judgements?>
Guys make shallow judgements about women all of the time. Do you want a girl wearing scrubby clothes? Men don't give women a second look or a second chance to "Talk" to them. so why should women?
I'm not wasting my time with some asshole who doesn't know how to dress. It's about self esteem. If he feels like crap, he's doing to dress like it. There's nothing wrong with wanting someone who cares enough to wear decent clothes. I'm not saying it has to be designer- But at least care enough to not wear holes and stains. It's about class.
<If you don't smell, don't bathe, but bathe every 2-3 days @ least. There's a mental connection between bathing that can't be overlooked.>
Bathing daily not only makes you feel better about yourself, but it makes you smell better.
<Cologne and perfume is skunky and overdone. Don't bother. Ralph Lauren? Yuppie.>
You probably stink like horse shit, don't you? Bathing every 2-3 days? Not wearing any form of after shave or cologne?
<Washing your face everyday with soap and water will get you the same results.>
This is true. Unless someone really has a problem.
<I know people that live with their girlfriend's parents. Doesn't matter where you live. It depends on the circumstances. Economic times are tough for some of us, and you've gotta do what you've gotta do; moreover, I think rent is a waste of money. Staying at home and saving money for your own house can be a wise choice. I bet you've never lived on your own, paying your own bills, have you Mistress Dragon?>
Only a loser lives off his girlfriend's parents. He's going no where. I am not saying that no one goes through tough times. But I am saying that a majority of girls who have any form of self respect are not going to date someone who lives off HER parents.
Everyone goes through rough times. But don't make that an excuse to continue living at home. In Makismo's situation, he's unemployed and sits at home all day playing video games.
All that bullshit about "Oh, well he's got a good heart..This guy lives off my parents money, he smells and wears holey stinky clothes, only showers every three days, but he still loves me!" is well.. bullshit. Come on. Be realistic. Those are the type of niave idiot women who end up living in a shelter after surviving an abusive relationship.
What a catch.