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JHendrix said:Posted again for emphasis.
Quoted again for emphasis.
JHendrix said:Posted again for emphasis.
dmhawkmoon said:Forget any of this nonsense about changing your look or your hobbies or anything like that. I know tons of attractive women who like nerdy guys. I know tons who don't. People are different. You can meet women who like almost any kind of guy. There's not one right way to be. BUT you need a few things no matter what. Mostly, you need to get out and talk to people. This is a life skill that needs to be developed for years. The ability to talk to a person, know when to take the hint that they want you gone, and know how to be confident and interesting enough to keep their attention. Now this is not a matter of changing any interests or who you are, but a matter of proper expression. SOMEONE will like what you have to say if you express it properly. You just need to get out there and do it. If you never developed this skill very well, it would make sense that you never meet women.
Seriously, though, don't go selling your games or stop using the internet or buy new clothes. These things aren't important to all women. If you want to find the right woman, do what you want to do and find the woman who likes that. The women who are all over the well-dressed super-model types aren't going to go for you no matter what you do. Find a chick who likes nerds. My ex wished I had been MORE nerdy.... Go figure.
dmhawkmoon said:Forget any of this nonsense about changing your look or your hobbies or anything like that. I know tons of attractive women who like nerdy guys. I know tons who don't. People are different. You can meet women who like almost any kind of guy. There's not one right way to be. BUT you need a few things no matter what. Mostly, you need to get out and talk to people. This is a life skill that needs to be developed for years. The ability to talk to a person, know when to take the hint that they want you gone, and know how to be confident and interesting enough to keep their attention. Now this is not a matter of changing any interests or who you are, but a matter of proper expression. SOMEONE will like what you have to say if you express it properly. You just need to get out there and do it. If you never developed this skill very well, it would make sense that you never meet women.
Seriously, though, don't go selling your games or stop using the internet or buy new clothes. These things aren't important to all women. If you want to find the right woman, do what you want to do and find the woman who likes that. The women who are all over the well-dressed super-model types aren't going to go for you no matter what you do. Find a chick who likes nerds. My ex wished I had been MORE nerdy.... Go figure.
Makismo said:I have given my picture to a few people but so far no one has posted it up. I have a picture of myself and if you want to post it then let me know and I will send it to you. Then maybe you can see the problems I am having with my looks. Thanks for your time.
Makismo said:I haven't had a friend in years. I don't have anyone really. I like to talk to my cats a lot but they aren't that great of company.
Makismo said:I have given my picture to a few people but so far no one has posted it up. I have a picture of myself and if you want to post it then let me know and I will send it to you. Then maybe you can see the problems I am having with my looks. Thanks for your time.
Eliza said:Hmmm...want to try friendster or something like if you still want to meet girls and not part with your keyboard...However...NOTHING BEATS GOING OUT...SO IF YOU REALLY WANT TO KNOW IF YOU ARE ATTRACTIVE OR NOT GO OUT IN THE REAL WORLD...BE YOURSELF...ITS EASY TO START
1. LOG OUT
2. SHUT THE COMPUTER DOWN (save your files first)
3. LOCK YOUR NEO WHATEVER AWAY FOR A WHILE
4. STEP OUT OF THE HOUSE...
A new game begins
ROUND 1 "FIGHT"
and if you F..k up a very dif reset button awaits
PLEASE SIR DO IT FOR YOU!!!
JHendrix said:
Let's be realistic.
Step one. Go to a decent store. If you don't have a lot of money, try some smaller department store and buy yourself khaki slacks and a button up shirt that is pressed and crisp to perfection. No jeans. At least get two of these outfits to start off with. Get good shoes to go with it. Girls pay attention to shoes. Preferably black ones (Remember, none of that low class trashy tennis shoes look).
Touche.Quit smoking. It's a disgusting habit. Not only do you stink, but your breath smells like shit. Personally, I don't mind a casual smoke of argila, but that's about it.
Brush your teeth and get a teeth whitening. If you can't afford a professional one, try Crest White Strips. Always have breath mints or gum.
If you don't smell, don't bathe, but bathe every 2-3 days @ least. There's a mental connection between bathing that can't be overlooked.To remove your stench, take a shower (YES, EVERYDAY!).
Cologne and perfume is skunky and overdone. Don't bother. Ralph Lauren? Yuppie.Use nice cologne that isn't overwhelming. Try something by Ralph Lauren.
Agreed.Get your nails trimmed and clean. Same goes for the nasty feet.
Washing your face everyday with soap and water will get you the same results.Don't pop your zits. Go to the doctor and get a topical gel to take care of the problem. They will write out a prescription.
Agreed.Shave. If you have tasteful groomed sideburns, leave them. But everything else has to go.
MOVE OUT of your parents house! That's NEVER going to go over well with women. It's fucking pathetic. Get some education, class, and a career.
Makismo said:OK, I put some good smelling stuff on and waited outside for some girls in my class to come by. They did finally come by - 4 of them in fact. I am pretty sure I heard one girl say to another girl, "Are you asking me if I have fucked him yet?" I have been wondering all day if they were talking about me but probably not. I tried to start up a conversation with them but I didn't get much of a response from them. I decided to take off my glasses for a long time and clean them. I did this so they could see how I looked with my glasses off.
Finally, one of the girls asks me about when the test is so I tell her. A few of the other girls chimed in. On of the girls whispered to the other girl, "He's cute." I have to wonder if they were talking about me but since I was the only guy around - maybe so unless they saw some other guy walking down the street at that same time. I then looked at my watch and saw that 10 minutes had passed so it was time to go in for class. I said, "I will see you all in class." Some of the girls said "Byyyeeee!" I sounded kind of like a happy flirty "Bye" if you ask me.
After class ended, I held the door open for two of the girls because the first two had already gone through the door before me. The girls said a very happy, "Thank You!" I think that I might be going somewhere. I am going to keep it cool and try not to talk to much. At least they aren't running away from me at this point so I have something to build on. Maybe I can start a study group with them in the near future. We will see what happens.
Makismo said:OK, I put some good smelling stuff on and waited outside for some girls in my class to come by. They did finally come by - 4 of them in fact. I am pretty sure I heard one girl say to another girl, "Are you asking me if I have fucked him yet?" I have been wondering all day if they were talking about me but probably not.
Stinky-Dinkins said:Makismo has sent Dinkins his picture so that it can be posted within this thread. Proof that when one trusts in Dinkins good things happen...
MAKISMO
Freelancer said:Is that really him?
Makismo said:OK, I put some good smelling stuff on and waited outside for some girls in my class to come by. They did finally come by - 4 of them in fact. I am pretty sure I heard one girl say to another girl, "Are you asking me if I have fucked him yet?" I have been wondering all day if they were talking about me but probably not. I tried to start up a conversation with them but I didn't get much of a response from them. I decided to take off my glasses for a long time and clean them. I did this so they could see how I looked with my glasses off.
Finally, one of the girls asks me about when the test is so I tell her. A few of the other girls chimed in. On of the girls whispered to the other girl, "He's cute." I have to wonder if they were talking about me but since I was the only guy around - maybe so unless they saw some other guy walking down the street at that same time. I then looked at my watch and saw that 10 minutes had passed so it was time to go in for class. I said, "I will see you all in class." Some of the girls said "Byyyeeee!" I sounded kind of like a happy flirty "Bye" if you ask me.
After class ended, I held the door open for two of the girls because the first two had already gone through the door before me. The girls said a very happy, "Thank You!" I think that I might be going somewhere. I am going to keep it cool and try not to talk to much. At least they aren't running away from me at this point so I have something to build on. Maybe I can start a study group with them in the near future. We will see what happens.
Liquid Snake said:"I am pretty sure I heard one girl say to another girl, "Are you asking me if I have fucked him yet?" I have been wondering all day if they were talking about me but probably not. " is a definite classic comment in N-G.com