Did she date Bibliophile after you or something?
When I was in college I interned at a strip club where my primary responsibility was oiling up the strippers.
It was a valuable learning experience that helped me land my first full time job at Morgan Stanley after graduating.
She's old. Probably was a slut before those things were "in".
I'm talking ass for cash! I recently found out that a female friend has worked in the porn industry. Does anyone here have stories of discovering a friend or family member works in porn, prostitution, massage parlors...aka a rub and tug? Hell...let's toss in strippers for good measure.
After the initial shock of learning she has sucked and fucked for a living....I for the most part see her same. Sometimes, during conversations, my eyes drift down to her mouth and I wonder how many cocks have been in there. The funniest thing she said during the conversation was...."but it's not like I'm a whore or anything." That made me .
I don't understand what's shocking about sex for money or sex on camera or even just taking your clothes off for money, at the end of the day it's a job. If it were really so wrong, it wouldn't be one of those "wink-wink-nudge-nudge" type things in our society, it would be condemned on the same level as things like pedophilia or beastiality, and there certainly wouldn't be regulated prostitution in Nevada.
That said, I've known three strippers and one camgirl personally, dated one of them VERY briefly, and the one I knew in high school actually ran away to Florida when she was a senior, she was a missing person, presumed dead and all that, came back a few months later with a bunch of tattoos and started stripping, it was pretty wild seeing that transformation, she was such a goody two shoes, CRAZY hot though. The camgirl tried a little "escorting" for a while, but no one was lining up for those beanbag tits, knowwutimsayin?
When I was 21, my best friend at the time was roommates with this BIG girl that worked as a phone sex operator (from some creepy guy's house, wtf), in all fairness she had a sexy voice. But when bigguns found out I had obliged a mutual friend with a bondage/domination fantasy she started hounding me to bang her and I was all like "lulz no ", it got to the point where I had to stop hanging out at my friend's house for a while, it got a little crazy, then she got kicked out for stealing shit while my friend was at work.
I have a coworker now that's moving to Los Angeles this fall to do porn professionally, she's already had one striptease photo shoot published, probably gonna be a lot more from her in the future.
Never made friends with anyone that works at a porn store or a rub and tug though, but I feel like I have most of my bases covered. I've met a lot of sluts, they're just more fun.
EDIT: Neo_moe, how did you get an internship at a strip club? That's just the coolest/craziest shit I've heard today.
Unfortunately I think there are far far more of the latter than the former.
Yeah, by 100:1
The blonde girl jo was my neighbor for 10 years before she moved to Chelsea to direct.
http://xhamster.com/movies/651665/british_roxy_jo_amp_nici.html
Hit it?
I see it this way - there's nothing wrong with sex for cash, stripping, all that kind of thing as far as I can see. However, a large and vocal part of society says there is and will judge and hound people who are involved and try to make them feel bad about it.
What that leaves are two types of women that get involved in porn, truly liberated, headstrong, in control powerhouse women who want to show the world they won't bend to other people's expectations, and the other type, pre-damaged, broken women who don't care any more what anyone thinks about them, they just need the money and porn is little more than a continuation of previous abuse but now they're at least getting paid for it so why not.
Unfortunately I think there are far far more of the latter than the former.
...and I'm sure you learned a ton about that world (seriously). My wife's best friend had an older sister that was a stripper (she had a smoking frame, let me tell you). That girl was a head case. I got to know her well and let me tell you, she had some issues. We have a pretty well known joint she worked for, the owner would front the $$ for a tit-job, then let you "rent to own". He'd also gladly get you on the coke if you want as well. She accepted both. She was in debt to him for some time before finally making good $$...even then, the coke-nose got the best of her for years. For the most part...she hated men. The shit that would come out of her moth about them...such disdain.
She wore out (like they always do), last time I saw her she was in this shitty trailer at a trailer park all strung out on coke (with a few kids)...
Is this Big Al's by chance?
It's really weird to be the person you guys are talking about.
*crickets*