Then why do I keep crashing into the first enemy in Ibara, EVERY SINGLE TIME?!?!
I would mention that a lot of the games that are talked about here are intended for players who've had years of experience with shoot em ups.
I'd echo the comment made earlier and suggest you start off with some older titles to build up your skills. If your playing mostly bullet hell games right now you might find that R-type(besides R-type itself and sequals try Pulstar and Axelay) style games that focus more on memory are actually more to your liking, they were ultimately aimed far more at mainstream audience than bullet hell titles.
Good tips here guys! I think using an emulator is where I'm gong wrong; the temptation to use save states is just too dam high.
Emulating and save states seem like a bad idea to me.
Then why do I keep crashing into the first enemy in Ibara, EVERY SINGLE TIME?!?!
basing the difficulty of the game on how soon you die is a pretty lazy difficulty system. developers just didn't want to bother creating a 2nd loop for true masochists.
The good old way. You die, hit the reset button and start over