All my best to Toby's family. I spoke to Captron, who knew him best, on the phone and he says his account is no longer active but he'll try to make his way in to say a few words. I'll direct him to this thread.
I met Toby and his son, Andrew, a few years back with fellow members at a gathering Toby hosted. I'd spoken to him on the phone before and after that meeting, but I'm sure others knew him much better. I can still say he was a guy who was *thankful* and appreciative for everything he was able to work for and able to give. Emotional and outgoing, he was the type of guy who just wanted to be happy. Although he lost his cool with a few members he'd never hold a grudge. I think the yin and yang attitude was a large part of his charm on the forum. He struggled to find the middle ground in life, and he had fun doing it.