purple said:
Dear CADMAN2K
i definately dont understand why are you doing this to me..i dont want to push anyone here to do something for me...i think i expalined myself very well...almost all day im online and refreshing the index page to see you
...because my friend in london will come back very soon...everytime i decide to pm you i become paranoid because i see you online and you just dont answer any of my pms...is started to think maybe you just added me to your ignore list...because i learned that when you send pms to someone a popup should appear and show him that he has new message...it is your right to not sell anything to me and also it is your right to not answer my messages...this is just internet...but if you dont want to sell me anything why are you telling me that you dont have problem to dealing with me? today i decided to wait a little bit more and just checked the forum twice..because im cant wait enough...i have sent you many messages recently and i really feel like im disturbing you...but please just tell me that you dont want to deal with me than i will start to wait for other things...really i dont understand...what am i have? done...asking you to who will send first? asking you if its possible to send via airmail? to have only one feedback on ebay? this stress will kill me...as i told you maybe you guys think that im stupid...but little bit of emhaty please...little bit...thanks
Purple
Purple, I think you need to stop jumping to conclusions and give CADMAN2K the benefit of the doubt. The fact the forum shows someone is online does not really mean he is reading the forum or even at his computer. If I open a web page to read the forum, and then I walk away from my computer, the forum will show me as online, but I may not be present to read you message. I may not even be at home, but my computer is at home. This could be the case with CADMAN2K.
Another possibility is that he is just plainly busy. I have to sympathize with that, because I work full-time and go to grad school full-time, and sometimes when I get an email, I am too busy or too tired to respond immediately, though I will get around to it. You don't know what CADMAN2K's situation is.
Keep in mind, you might have the luxury of sitting aroung your computer all day long. A lot of the members on this forum don't have that luxury. They may have work, school, families, etc. This forum is not priority # 1 for most of us, and you need to respect it.
Also, if you have concerns for CADMAN2K, you should send him a private message, not post it on the forum for everyone to read. Show a little respect. I know you are going to say that you PM'ed him, but he didn't respond. Well, be patient. He is not here on your schedule. Everyone is here on their own time.
Honestly, if I were CADMAN2K, I wouldn't want to do business with you just on the basis of your public postings about him alone.