@suicidekiller
You obviously do not read these threads enough or if you do you do not pay attention to what they say.
Aaron Lewis, Jahpei, do those names mean anything to you? If not, I suggest you read up.
ANY person would be just plain silly to send money to a guy that posts a game onliine and says it's for sale. SO we have 7 posts and one exensive title... whether he's legit or not 9he probably is, but still) to me it looks unusual.
When you're dealing with somone new and the buyer is established, it is not usunual to send the game first. The guy from this forum that sold me my personal AES Metal Slug X and sent it to me first. I liked it's condition and sent him money 24 hours later. If a user I knew wanted me to send a game first, I would. If a newbie asked me to I would not.
That said, Ebay feedback means VERY LITTLE if you're new (if youve been around and people know you to be a good seller it can help). IF you bought from Japhei he would link you to CarolesCollecable 's feedbackwhich is some awesome looking feeback. You would lead most to think that it is safe to do business with him. But it is NOT and wea ll know it. I mean you wyou really buy from Japhei?
The only thing that is safe is building a reputation by dealing with reputable people.
I know about this. I am fairly new, and at the same time as of ANYONE would buy from or sell to me because I have taken the effort to prove myself. When I was new, I bought games from members and asked them to tell people that I did put the $ up. In fact my first transaction was a couple of hundred $ for Shock Boxes with Big Bear. I had never seen a shock box, but his rep was so strong that I knew I would be safe... and man am I glad I sent him the money a perfect transaction!
So I will state it again, I would NOT buy a game from a newbie without references and even then I would want the game sent to me first. And your saying, "I know the guy" like you did is NOT the same as saying, "I have done business with him on thses forums and it was good."
If you want to do things any other way, go for it!
I personally will error on the side of caution.