Breaking up: It's fucked up.

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Rade K

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I'm not even going out with this girl! I'm in the midst of kinda breaking up with her. The thing is, we have only known each other for a week. We cuddled (I know, I know) once and she gets the idea in her head that we are going out.

What a fruit loop. So now I am getting lambasted on ICQ from her. If you guys want to hear more, just say so.

Any other opinions or stories about crazy girls, let em rip.
 
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Wing Zero

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Man, u made the mistake!!! You cuddle, man they think they own u!! I am just messin man. I know what its like. I have been witha girl for almost 3 years, and had plenty make up break up crap with her. And from what u say, my girl isnt to far off from your looney toon. <IMG SRC="smilies/loco.gif" border="0">
 
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Well geez ppl, unless you TELL her otherwise, what do you expect her to think? -_- You can't blame her.
Ppl seem to forget the concept of explaining themselves. It's all about assuming nowadays. And you know what they say about THAT. It makes an ass outta you and me.
 
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Rade K

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I made i clear to her after we cuddled (word makes me sick), that I dont think we would would out. She still hung out with me after that.

She is a very confused (and boring) girl who wuold not take any answer seriously.

YOu know whats cool, though? Whenever I break up with or turn down a girl, I always seem 'em a month later with a boyfriend. And for some reason they rub it in. I would love to say, "I broke up with you, you know?" but I never would.

I let this girl down so well that any girl in this forum would be proud of me. I gave her many valid arguments which I backed up to the teeth. NO way in hell was I in the wrong here.

BTW: she was the one that started cuddling me, in front of her friends, at a samll get together. What am I supposed to do, push her away? All I did was put my arm around her. Thats it. Not a kiss, not nothing else (well, I kinda touched her boob, but that was an accident).
 
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Well, what did you expect? You 'cuddled,' as you so well put it. That usually means something to women. It's kinda like a kiss (on the lips, of course), you can't just do that to a girl and think she won't think anything of it. <IMG SRC="smilies/tickled.gif" border="0">

Well, my reccomendation? Just play along and break up with her. It's a lie to admit that you two were going out, but you'll get her off your back.... or lap...or... wherever you 'cuddle.' <IMG SRC="smilies/drool2.gif" border="0"> <IMG SRC="smilies/smirk.gif" border="0">
 
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I got dumped by a girl like 8 years ago that decided to start dating my best friend (extremely long story, full of many twists after that occured).

Anyway, the short of it is she loved to try to show up wherever I was flaunting him BUT if I was with a girl at the time, she would make a break for it crying.... Life must have really sucked for him (I know it did because I was an evil SoB!).

Anyway, my own thought is that the 'ex' is just trying to say, look, you can be replaced, after you dropped them. I could be wrong, but that is how I see it. Any opinions that counter that thought?
 
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Originally posted by Rade Kuruc:
<STRONG>I made i clear to her after we cuddled (word makes me sick), that I dont think we would would out. She still hung out with me after that.

She is a very confused (and boring) girl who wuold not take any answer seriously.

YOu know whats cool, though? Whenever I break up with or turn down a girl, I always seem 'em a month later with a boyfriend. And for some reason they rub it in. I would love to say, "I broke up with you, you know?" but I never would.

I let this girl down so well that any girl in this forum would be proud of me. I gave her many valid arguments which I backed up to the teeth. NO way in hell was I in the wrong here.

BTW: she was the one that started cuddling me, in front of her friends, at a samll get together. What am I supposed to do, push her away? All I did was put my arm around her. Thats it. Not a kiss, not nothing else (well, I kinda touched her boob, but that was an accident).</STRONG>
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You groped her boob? Result! How big were they?
 
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Rade K

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I don't know. C-cuppish, perhaps? And it was not a grope! It was a touch! And it WAS an accident as I stated above!
 
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Aight.... if it's true that you made it clear to her, then my bad.

Originally posted by Rain:
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You groped her boob? Result! How big were they?</STRONG>
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*sticks dynamite in Rain's pants*
J00 deserve it mah friend.
*runs away, right before the explosion*
 
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Cool_Hansome_Kid

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If she sucks,then leave her,dont ever mention her,find a better girl,who dont do that ramblings when you er...cuddle again by any means.
 
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If you dont want to have a relationship with her then tell her! and if she still hangs around you and you dont want her to ask her to leave or you should leave.

good luck!! <IMG SRC="smilies/smile.gif" border="0">
 
Neo Bomber Man

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Just tell her to get lost: I have done it to people and it seems to work. Well, I like yelling at people sometimes, just to get it out of the system or for the fun of it. Not that I have ever been "involved" nor have I wanted to, but when it came time to give someone of either sex the brush off for any reason, plan A often did the job. Either that or start burping & farting a lot around her?

By the way, do you mean "accidentally" like this?

edit: This computer sucks dick. View the "Hand on Tit" clip, and read the commentary if you wish.

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Fran

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MAN !!!!

way hey !

so hows it goin in J?

are you madferit?
 
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Originally posted by Rade Kuruc:
<STRONG>I don't know. C-cuppish, perhaps? And it was not a grope! It was a touch! And it WAS an accident as I stated above!</STRONG>
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Yeah,yeah,..yeah....sure it was an accident... <IMG SRC="smilies/tongue.gif" border="0"> Just giving you shit man. It's seems that sometimes you can't Just be friends with a girl. You can spell it out or even write it with a SHARPIE on their forhead and they won't get it. Not saying that there aren't guys out there like that too......just saying sometimes it can't have a nice ending........oh well.....c'est la vie!!!
 
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Originally posted by LeonaMargoyle:
<STRONG>Aight.... if it's true that you made it clear to her, then my bad.


*sticks dynamite in Rain's pants*
J00 deserve it mah friend.
*runs away, right before the explosion*</STRONG>
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Pah, you know you want me. Oh and Neo Bomber Man? Never have I heard better advice. Really. Yelling works wonders <IMG SRC="smilies/smile.gif" border="0">
 
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Kimochi ii!!!!!!.... ikuikuikuiku... *shakes cheeks* kimochi ii!!!!!!! to gennosuke (inside joke)
 
Neo Bomber Man

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Right now all I am is tired. Practically fainted from exhaustion trying to chew some dried, I think cuttlefish, last night. I'd have better luck chewing through the door...

No luck with the stuff I'm afraid. Friend of mine got that OST, but won't sell it, even though he hates the game and wants nothing to do with it. Stupid he is, yes, but I've got another four weeks before I'm home, so wish me luck and I may find it used.

How about you? Catch you in a few days. Or whenever.
 
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Originally posted by Rain:
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Pah, you know you want me. Oh and Neo Bomber Man? Never have I heard better advice. Really. Yelling works wonders <IMG SRC="smilies/smile.gif" border="0"></STRONG>
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Yup.
Like a stick in the eye. <IMG SRC="smilies/biggrin.gif" border="0">
 
Lou Gojira

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Man, you got my sympathies Rade. Sounds like you're the one who has to "do the nasty" and be the villain in this scenario. Truth be told, I was always the one WANTING to get dumped than do the dumping, but as my luck has had it, I was almost always the one wanting to make some space in the relationships. And the really sad thing is, some girls just will not take no for an answer!

All I can recommend for a persistant girl is, and this is shitty, but it works: Talk about other girls constantly to her, jump her ass over petty things, harp on about how stupid she is over a little mistake (make a mountain out of a mole hill where convenient in other words), leave your manners behind when around her, and if possible find a movie or song she hates, and talk about it nonstop like it's the best damn thing to ever exist on this planet. If she doesn't take the hint then, well, just get real mean and cuss her out.

I know, this crap ain't fun. Abusing others is never fun, especially women if you're a real man. But there are such things as "necessary evils" to keep from being a sad and broken person yourself. Good luck, and try to be as painless as possible if you can...
 
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