ADD does not exist

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I have a theory.

Teachers don't get to the point.

That's why children have "ADD"

They nod off after waiting and waiting for teachers and parents to get to the point.

discuss.
 

Average Joe

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Taking Aderol is like drinking 50 cups of coffee, it's fun for the first twelve hours you're awake but near the end your brain feels like it was sat on by Anna Nicole.
 

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ADD is just some bullshit write off, so the person responsible to diagnose it gets paid.
I mean isnt everyone Attention deficient in things they do not give a shit about?
 

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The problem is that our society cannot accept people to have any other way than to study and be good and work work work til they die. Some people hate school and cannot focus cause it doesn't interest them. Whether or not it is a problem depends on what you're trying to do with the person. If you're trying to force them on this path of schooling then it is a problem. On the one hand, you don't want people to have no education, but then again some people are going to be dumb as apes anyway. That isn't to say that "ADD" kids are dumb....

Well really the way I see it it comes down to the fact that people all ALLL have these bodily influences that pull on us. I have to write an essay for finals right now. I want so bad to not do it. It would feel good to sit back and say I can't do it and I can't focus... But I won't because I try to be a strong person and I need good grades to get the job I want. Think about sexual desires. People have issues controlling themselves sometimes. We all do it. It's not a disorder, it's BEING HUMAN. We give these kids medication and tell them it's not their fault; well that's not right. It would be like telling a child molestor it's not his fault that he has a fetish for kids. If you have bodily influences that make you want to do something "bad", you should learn to control them or live with them... And if you give in to something horrible like murder or rape, then you should be locked up. Not given medication. Fuck this shifting the blame.
 

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Parents need to beat there kids more often. Nobody whoops kids anymore. Counting to 3 and calling out their full name ain't gonna help shit. Take the belt out and whoop the fuck out of 'em then they'll act straight and do what they are supposed to do.
 

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Agreed. I have always believed there is no such thing as "ADD".

It's merely a grand marketing plot.

Giving your children behavior-modification drugs is wrong. <img src="confused.gif" border="0">
 

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It's all about shifting responsibility to someone else. AKA: Bullshit. I know: Im a teacher.
 

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Originally posted by Average Joe:
<strong>Taking Aderol is like drinking 50 cups of coffee, it's fun for the first twelve hours you're awake but near the end your brain feels like it was sat on by Anna Nicole.</strong><hr></blockquote>

Sounds like the kind of thing I need... Where do you get this Aderol stuff from??? <img src="graemlins/spock.gif" border="0" alt="[Spock]" />

Although I don't fancy the idea of my brain being sat on by Anna Nicole... she is one hefty bitch...
 

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I think ADD is a bullshit excuse 98% of the time. What I can't stand is the multitude of parents that come into my office rambling about how their child needs their ADD medecine right now otherwise they'll be completely unmanagable. Christ people, fucking learn to parent your children at least some of the time.
 

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Originally posted by SPINMASTER X:
<strong>Parents need to beat there kids more often. Nobody whoops kids anymore. Counting to 3 and calling out their full name ain't gonna help shit. Take the belt out and whoop the fuck out of 'em then they'll act straight and do what they are supposed to do.</strong><hr></blockquote>

even though I didn't get hit, but I seen my friends get hit, they straighten up...but these modern times, it's child abuse...and people who don't mind their own business get in the way and help the kid sue you.
<img src="graemlins/mad2.gif" border="0" alt="[Mad 2]" />
 

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Originally posted by SPINMASTER X:
<strong>Parents need to beat there kids more often. Nobody whoops kids anymore. Counting to 3 and calling out their full name ain't gonna help shit. Take the belt out and whoop the fuck out of 'em then they'll act straight and do what they are supposed to do.</strong><hr></blockquote>

A-fuckin'-men to that! <img src="graemlins/mrt2.gif" border="0" alt="[Mr T]" /> You said it Spin!
 

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Originally posted by EvilWasabi:
<strong>I have a theory.

Teachers don't get to the point.

That's why children have "ADD"

They nod off after waiting and waiting for teachers and parents to get to the point.

discuss.</strong><hr></blockquote>

I think you changed a lot since you have changed your avatar

[ December 18, 2002: Message edited by: k'_127 ]</p>
 

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Originally posted by k'_127:
<strong>

I think you changed a lot since you have changed your avatar

[ December 18, 2002: Message edited by: k'_127 ]</strong><hr></blockquote>

I concur. <img src="graemlins/spock.gif" border="0" alt="[Spock]" /> It seems that we become our online personas to a shocking extent! :eek:
 

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oh, ADD is just one in a million disorders that do not exist.

They are called weak minded people.....
 

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ADD does exist as do hyper active disorders. Of course it is used as an excuse 98% of the time for shitty parenting. Don't abandon the people that trully have a disorder because everyone else sucks.
 

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Sure. Most of the various neuroses and disorders people have are simply products of our modern society.

In the dark ages, people didn't have complexes, compulsions, aversions or ADD; they were too busy trying to grow food and avoid the plague.

'Course they didn't have the Neo Geo either.
 

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Originally posted by mog:
<strong>I think ADD is a bullshit excuse 98% of the time. What I can't stand is the multitude of parents that come into my office rambling about how their child needs their ADD medecine right now otherwise they'll be completely unmanagable. Christ people, fucking learn to parent your children at least some of the time.</strong><hr></blockquote>

Parent your child I thought that is what the teachers were for. NOT!!! I agree people need to stop looking for excuses for the way their children act. The only ones to blame are the parents. Take some responsibility for that being you helped to make!!!
 

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Originally posted by EvilMike:
<strong>ADD does exist as do hyper active disorders. Of course it is used as an excuse 98% of the time for shitty parenting. Don't abandon the people that trully have a disorder because everyone else sucks.</strong><hr></blockquote>

The thing about americans in general is that when they have a problem, they don't seem very apt to changing their own behavior to improve the situation. Forcing themselves to break their inability to focus.

Shit, if anyone had ADD and every other disorder, it would be me. I couldn't focus at all in school. Sometimes it happens still today, where people just drone on and on and I'm ready to pass out in the middle fo their explaination. I still remember feeling tired looking at the dull yellow or pale blue walls in elementary school... And my grades abck then sucked. Teachers said I had little focus, or talked in class, slept, etc. But then I was moved to a private school, hung out with nerds, and changed my behavior. I could be on meds right now, but I fixed myself.

You can't pay an elementary school teacher in a public school enough money to make their class lectures more accessable, terse, and absorbable. Fuck if they care. So right now, Mike, you and everyone else with a complex has been raised to have it. All the meds are supposed to do is give people a taste of what they should be acting like - how they should be focusing. Then they should get off them and try as hard as possible to emulate the behavior they had on the drugs.

I see so many vapid zombies everyday. The scapegoat is parents and cable television.

The company I work for does this adopt a family thing where we buy gifts for families around this time of year. So I'm looking over the wish list for one family and they have an 18 month old that wants DVDs. Lots of DVDs of childrens movies... And I'm thinking, yeah, that will shut that little kid up. Now mom and dad can have sex like the fucktards they've always been, but now with impunity. Just turn up the volume. Now junior's a vegetable, and mom and dad will be supporting him for the rest of their lives, if they can afford it. Or they'll cut him off and let him work at McDonalds flipping patties.
 

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Well... There are different things happening here.

For one thing, I don't think that prescribing Aderol or other medication is used here for "ADD" affected children. However, yes there are kids that have problems concentrating and are being a pain. There always have been children with problems, but medicating them is the easy way out.

[I have an aversion towards medication like you wouldn't believe... I think I was 18 when I was first able to swallow a pill. ;) ]

Yes, we all have times where our moods, personalities sway past the norm. It's part of being human, of having our bodies react to our changing environement. Pretty soon any behaviour will be linked to some type of hormonal imballance and could be "cured" by a pill. Do you play too many games? Here, take this pill. You should be playing 2.5 hours a week. Eating too much chocolate? Take this pill, you should be consuming an average of 100 calories of chocolate a day. Not buying any clothes from GAP? Tsk tsk... Sorry, you need to take the GAP pill. You should own at least 10 GAP shirts. Wait a minute, you don't wear any blue clothes. Here, take another 4 pills.

Yes, there are people with severe medical conditions that require medication. But we need to draw the line between a condition that can be treated with self-discipline and a full-blown disorder that really cannot be treated without medication, an operation, etc.

Then you've got another problem.

Children have a lot of rights these days, which is great... However, they now have the power to easily abuse those rights. A mother tries to prevent their 14 year old to go out of the house at 3am. The child fights back and the the parent restrains the child by holding them against the wall (not crushing them, coonsidering that the child is actually bigger then the mother.) The next day, children's aid comes knocking on her door.

Children need to realize the consequences of their actions too. Did the kid realize that if children's aid comes in and finds something wrong, that they the kid and her siblings might find themselves seperated? Wow, all because the mother didn't want to let her child out.

Anyway, I can say that I wasn't the best student in the world. Sure I was quiet, but as the teacher was talking my mind would start cranking. I would think of various things, and occasionally actually listen. It's worse today at meetings. One sentence could get me going and I'll be pondering something related to that sentence for a good 15 minutes while missing the rest of the conversation. What saves me is I can pick things up quickly and occasionally "rewind" the last few minutes of the conversation and pick up from where it stopped. Hmm... Think I need medication?

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Originally posted by td741:
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Yes, we all have times where our moods, personalities sway past the norm. It's part of being human, of having our bodies react to our changing environement. Pretty soon any behaviour will be linked to some type of hormonal imballance and could be "cured" by a pill. Do you play too many games? Here, take this pill. You should be playing 2.5 hours a week. Eating too much chocolate? Take this pill, you should be consuming an average of 100 calories of chocolate a day. Not buying any clothes from GAP? Tsk tsk... Sorry, you need to take the GAP pill. You should own at least 10 GAP shirts. Wait a minute, you don't wear any blue clothes. Here, take another 4 pills.
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So you see the move to give all these "slow" kids ritalin aderol and any other behavioral drugs as a way of streamlining them into the uniform rank and file children that they should see on tv.

I can see that.

Personally I don't think that he government should get in the way of family situations. Some people are going to be fucked up no matter what. I have a cousin who is going to be gay, because his mom is raising him to be that way. I can't do shit about it. I hate the kid. Obnoxious as fuck. As unlikeable as the mom. I feel sorry for my uncle though. He doesn't deserve it, but what can he do? He works to support the family. Just picked the wrong wife from the deck.
 

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Originally posted by SPINMASTER X:
<strong>Parents need to beat there kids more often. Nobody whoops kids anymore. Counting to 3 and calling out their full name ain't gonna help shit. Take the belt out and whoop the fuck out of 'em then they'll act straight and do what they are supposed to do.</strong><hr></blockquote>

man i hated getting spanked as a kid. when my mom would say my full name i'd get this chill in my spine; and i'd hope she'd use her hands. but no it was always a wooden spoon, or a shoe. though it was usually for good reason, like whn i hit some kid in the head in kidergarten with a block. or when i spit a pecan in a girls face. or the time i got caught beating up first graders for their lunch money. (i was in second grade) i was always in trouble for something, but it straightened me out that's for damn sure. kids these days all need a good whippin, i see kids in the grocery store rolling on the floor crying because they want a toy. but their mom's wont buy it, nor will they spank them. it's stupid i tell you. kids all need spankings from time to time. hell after a while my mom would spank me before i'd go to school and say: "that's what's gonna happen to you, if you get in trouble today."

kids need to learn, it's all a conditioned response, when they do something bad they get spanked. so they'll eventually stop, and as for add i was diagnosed with it in third grade, but i stopped taking ritalin in fifth grade. it turns out i was just lazy, and when combined with the fact that i've always been a bit of a class clown; they thought i was special.
 

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So you see the move to give all these "slow" kids ritalin aderol and any other behavioral drugs as a way of streamlining them into the uniform rank and file children that they should see on tv.

I can see that.
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I'm exagerrating the current situation but it could get that bad. If you don't fit the "norm", then something's wrong. No one's body chemistry is identical to someone's elses, and in a way that's what makes us different. I'm pretty sure at one time or another everyone has had thoughts, images or impulses of doing something that was well out of normal "socially accepted" bounds. What stops you from doing it?

The one problem with giving kids medication is that it doesn't teach them to be self-reliant to develop a strong will of their own. Drugs or other forms of medical intervention should be the last resort, and in most cases should be a temporary crutch.
 

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Boats suck. Last Blade 2 is better.

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