Crap from the past.

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Oh man! Ever have something come back to you that you thought was done, finished, no more? Jesus, I had a strange experience tonight like that. Don't want to get into the details, but it seems someone is trying to get in touch with me that, well, I don't want to talk to ever again! I though it was clear!!! :mad: :mad: :mad:
 

steveold

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Awwww man. Well, I guess you and I could say that I know what you know what I know about the... well, you know. :)

But yes, sometimes crap from the past either enters my head or the situation forces itself. Especially old "friends" who you don't want to see anymore give you a call and try to use you or something. I hate that. I just tell them to [fudge] off.

I have made plenty of mistakes in the past and I often hung out with the wrong people. So when those folks try to call me up, it just makes me sick.

The best way to fight these things is.... just be true to yourself and know who in the hell you are.
 

SNK4EVER

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Ah, I must say I'm all too familiar with this situation. The best bet is to 'gently' tell them you no longer want to be friends, and have grown apart. I put a lot of emphasis on 'gently' because, well I didn't do it so gently back when I was in a similiar situation. And, a couple of days later I had four flats on my pickup. :(
 

aria

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Send them a dead fish 'a la The Godfather' with a note that says: "you're next"

That may take the heat off :D
 

KaedesDisciple

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Yea man, I've had to do that on a number of occasions. Just make sure that you make your feelings and intentions perfectly clear, so that there is no room for misunderstanding. Misunderstanding is probably your worst enemy in this situation. Don't front or compromise yourself at all, you obviously made the decision to get them out of your life for a reason. Don't stress bro, we all get this shit sometimes
 

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Originally posted by Kaede's Disciple:
<strong>Yea man, I've had to do that on a number of occasions. Just make sure that you make your feelings and intentions perfectly clear, so that there is no room for misunderstanding. Misunderstanding is probably your worst enemy in this situation. Don't front or compromise yourself at all, you obviously made the decision to get them out of your life for a reason. Don't stress bro, we all get this shit sometimes</strong><hr></blockquote>

Thanks man. I know exactally what you mean, but sometimes no matter how honest and clear you are, some folks just don't get it! I have had to deal with this stuff many times, but this is an unuaual case. Still, it's all taken care of. Life, is good! I think this person will be leaving me alone!
 

steveold

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It's a great feeling when you know you took care of business in an efficient manner.

In other words, you feel like king when you kick ass! :D
 
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