What I have done with my candy cabs that have a two pronged plug was I picked up some decent gauged wire, connectors, and nice plastic 3 pronged plug ends. I made sure everything on my cab was going to the earth ground correctly. I cut and stripped both ends of the wire, placed a u shape on one end of the wire and connected the other end to the 3rd ground prong on the plug. Connected the u shaped end to the earth ground and plug in the other end into my power supply.
Correct me if I'm wrong, but couldn't you then, connect earth to earth ground from multiple cabs and then have the one grounded plug end plugging into the power supply?
For the monitor, I believe you could connect a molex connector and have it running off of the power from the power supply.