I go back and forth with how I spend my money, and with a kid on the way I find myself a bit more in control with my spending... however, when I took a serious look at what drives the economy in the first place I stopped worrying about it. Since this nation is depending on a deficit/debt, I see no reason to not live my life and spend money when I feel I need to on a credit card. The companies are not expecting you to pay it off, they either want their minimum (which I always pay 2 times or more the minimum) or slightly more and they are happy. You are happy with your purchases in the moment, and the deficit continues to keep the economy alive and well. Thus I'm a 27 year old with a credit card limit of $15,000 and climbing, and have been offered a permanent 3.75% interest rating from VISA with a starting credit limit of $55,000. Why? Because I figured the whole game out in 1998 about a year after I got my first VISA card at 21% interest when I was attending college. Back then I wouldn't spend more than I had to pay the card off. Then I realized how the system works, spent money... got a minimum statement of say $85.00, then I'd send em' $355.00 even though I owed $1,800 and they upped my total limit right there. Each time I'd make sure I sent them a bit more than what the wanted... then would withdraw tactically and send them a smaller amout here or there, and often times the mimimum in a pinch, only to send them $500 in one payment later. The credit line goes up.
Fastfoward to 2005. My wife's the Master's Degree holder I'm the self employed
"Storm Riding" seat of my pants individual who understands business from the ground up. Making contacts, doing favors for ppl, getting bartered back (they pay for it and money never changes hands) the favors in posh hotels, nice trips etc. Along with this I learned even more about how the money system works from business analysts and brokers. A weekend in a resort in South Padre Island paid for by a droog's uncle of mine whom I had helped with a security issue at his company once paid for it, and it was there I learned more and partied with and dined with some really interesting people. (All before I was married of course). Thus with all her professionally recognized professionality, she can't get a credit card limit over $2,500 MAX.
Thus the townhome condo I have and a lot is done by my credit and the fact the companies know they get my money. So it takes me a year and a half to pay off say a $5,855 charge? So what? It's actually a bit more, but the companies are happy, we only live once and I'm going to enjoy it all and I know a method (don't ask cause I'm not telling) that even if my credit did go to shit, the company itself would by law have to pay off the debt and I'm back in the black and clear again. Little loop holes and interpretation I learned about from some big wig lawyers along with some other things while in Chicago back in 2000. But I always pay cause I'm not a two bit punk. I stay informed, know how to roll the cold hard cash, always team up with the smart ones who usually don't get respect but end up protected by me, and play the system while staying "small enough" to not be a threat to the Big Guns out there. If for some reason I'm in debt when I die, the kids will know the score and just continue on. And within the next quarter of a century we'll see the end of tendered cash anyhow. And in the future you're not going to be shit without credit.
Just imagine what would happen if the deficit/debt ever did get put in check. I'll tell you what would happen...
Economic Collapse! ---In our up-to-the-second day and age, it's a consumer's world and if you know the score (being self educated and bendable but never breakable) a person can live a nice life as long as they don't get too greedy. You just keep it real within a certain range. Like I never spend more than $6,000 at any given time, but its the credit and reputation that matters most, plus the willingness to work shit jobs at times to pay off the debt.
EDIT: *Thus I'm conservative "Enough" but willing to spend in order to have the clout needed to do what I want on a small enough basis. And once a card is paid off in full from an amount you don't go over... you've got another $6,000 limit tacked onto your MAX amount. The key is to learning to use the "Barter System" within a professional context and keeping the contacts happy. Usually you play up to someone HUGE, stay humbled beneath them but they like you and you come along for the ride, knowing they can utilize your "different" nature as they need it, and you cut your ties. Keep it legal and you're fine, get too creative and you might wind up with your ass in a sling or six feet under.
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